Confidence

The JV Crew is back with a bang. To holla to the pals and gals who don’t have a heart. Stand up for what you believe in and never back down from defeat. Here are some personal tips for some personal events you might love to read about.

Confidence should run through your veins and feed your instincts. Never let people tell you you’re not good enough. Have faith, not in some ethereal being or holy spirits, but ultimately in yourself and know that what you do, has meaning and will make a difference.

If you’re having a presentation tomorrow, be ready, psyche yourself up and be confident. Let the material be a part of you. Be expressive, eloquent and effectively conversant. Imagine the audience to be your friends or naked babes in front of you---whatever floats ya boat. Bottom-line is for you to be confidently presenting information you know inside out, and not stutter nonsense like how your mom forced you.

If you’re going on a date with your hottie or crush, be confident. Don’t swell on the unpleasant, unnatural stuff that will only make you more nervous and sweat like a thawing icicle. Remember, if she is really interested in you, being yourself in the most natural and sensual way will be the best bet. Don’t think too much and focus on the fun things instead, you are already on a date with her? What’s worst?

If you’re going for an important interview or seeing your boss mano a mano, don’t panic! Freaking out will mean you have lost the battle. Be aware of your appearances, look good and smile more. Be a firm and lovely person, and not a timorous, stuttering and blundering fool. Take pride in knowing that the person opposite the desk, asking you questions that might pin you to the wall, is also as nervous or perplexed as you might be.

There are countless of scenarios and endings. Whatever the end might be, be it happy or sad, it is a learning experience and one that is personal. It will top the list of all other experiences simply because it is personal. You learn firsthand and know all the nuances that went right and wrong.

So fear not when, fear not why, fear not how, fear not ever, and fear not then.

Be Ardent, Bold, be Confident, be Decisive, be Effective, be Fervent.... seriously, the list can go on...

Peace,

JV Crew